Take this story for example. A jury awarded a Florida couple 4.5 million dollars because their child was born without arms and one leg. And while that is unfortunate, the real tragedy was their reason for suing the doctor. According to the Palm Beach Post (bold by me):
During a roughly two-week-long trial that ended Wednesday, Mejia and Santana claimed they would have never have brought Bryan into the world had they known about his horrific disabilities. Had Morel and technicians at OB/GYN Specialists of the Palm Beaches and Perinatal Specialists of the Palm Beaches properly administered two ultrasounds and seen he was missing three limbs, the West Palm Beach couple said they would have terminated the pregnancy.
I’m going to skip the social, political, moral, and ethical commentary since, as a pro-life Catholic, I think what’s wrong with their argument is very clear (plenty of other articles dive into those discussions). Instead, I want to focus on what we can learn from this story. What does the rosary teach us about difficult cases like this one? If we look at the Second Joyful Mystery, the Visitation, we see Mary sharing the joy of her pregnancy with her cousin Elizabeth. Luke’s Gospel talks about how John the Baptist “leaped for joy” in Elizabeth’s womb upon hearing Mary’s greeting and how Mary felt blessed. Mary goes on to say how her soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord and how God did great things to her. We learn from this encounter that all life, in whatever form, is a gift from God. All human life, while not perfect, is valuable because God infused us with souls meant to live with Him in Heaven forever.
Compare Mary’s story with the Santana’s. Mary also faced hardships first by being pregnant and unmarried (which would have been quite the scandal) and later seeing Jesus suffer in the Crucifixion. But through all those challenges she saw God’s ultimate glory and her role in bringing joy and happiness to the world. Both Mary and the Santana’s stories show that life is not without its hardships. Some people face larger obstacles in life than others. But God does not give us any challenge we cannot ultimately handle. Unfortunately, all the Santanas saw was the hardship and not God’s gift to them. Instead of finding strength through God as Mary did, they wanted a “do over” because they saw their son as a gift with “strings attached.” And while many of us may not face such large challenges as the Santana family, we often want God to pave over all the challenges or hardships we might encounter through life. We tend to blame God for any inconvenience or think He does not hear our prayers just because we do not receive the answers we want.
When we meditate on the Second Joyful Mystery we should remember that all life is precious no matter what form it comes in. Even the “lost souls” in this world, whether they be criminals, addicts of all kinds, or just plain “evil” persons, are special and precious in God’s eyes. All those living in mortal sin have an opportunity for forgiveness through the Sacrament of Reconciliation and can return to the same level of grace as the greatest saints. In short, we all have an intrinsic value despite the terrible acts we may commit or our physical/mental limitations. We pray that we have the strength to see past the hardships and challenges in life and see God’s imprint on everyone as Mary does.
- No Cross Too Heavy with God’s Love (rosarymeds.com)
- How’d you like to have these “parents”? (fellowshipofminds.wordpress.com)
- Have You Friended Jesus? (rosarymeds.com)
- The Feast of the Assumption (rosarymeds.com)
- The Holy Rosary- The Fifteen Promises who pray the Holy Rosary (thealphaandtheomega.wordpress.com)